By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi, hour by hour

How it opens, settles and lingers on skin.

Tuberose and gardenia pinned in hair on a cedar veranda.

Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi by By Kilian, bottle pictured with its key notes: Neroli, Ylang-ylang and Tuberose
  1. First spray0–15 min

  2. Heart15 min – 2 h

  3. Dry-down2 h – 7–12 h

Lasts
7–12 h
Long lasting
Sillage
Moderate, 2 of 4
When to wear

SeasonAutumn

Time of dayNight out

Best forWork

What wearers say

Votes from fragrance communities, most-voted answers first.

  • Longevity621 votes

    Most voted: 40%Long lasting

    37%Moderate

  • Sillage857 votes

    Most voted: 41%Moderate

    29%Strong

  • Season621 votes

    Most voted: 45%Autumn

    30%Winter

  • Time of day621 votes

    Most voted: 55%Night out

    35%Evening

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Longevity621 votes

  • Very weak4%22 votes
  • Weak7%44 votes
  • Moderate37%231 votes
  • Long lasting (Most voted)40%246 votes
  • Eternal13%78 votes

Sillage857 votes

  • Intimate11%97 votes
  • Moderate (Most voted)41%350 votes
  • Strong29%248 votes
  • Enormous19%162 votes

Season621 votes

  • Spring20%124 votes
  • Summer5%31 votes
  • Autumn (Most voted)45%280 votes
  • Winter30%186 votes

Time of day621 votes

  • Daytime8%50 votes
  • Office2%12 votes
  • Evening35%217 votes
  • Night out (Most voted)55%342 votes

Which size is right for you?

Every size is decanted from the same original bottle.

  • 3ml

    To discover it

    Price: Now €21.51Was €33.90SAVE 37%
    • Per ml: €7.17/ml
    • ≈60 sprays
    • 20 days of wear
  • Best value

    30ml

    To keep it

    Price: Now €133.20Was €295.90SAVE 55%
    • Per ml: €4.44/ml38% less per ml than 3ml
    • ≈600 sprays
    • 200 days of wear

At 3 sprays a day.

Loved by 50,000+

Why scent lovers try it with us before they buy the bottle.

  • Hand-decanted from the original bottle

    Decanted by hand from authentic bottles, never diluted.

  • Wear it for days before you commit

    Live with it at work, at night and at the weekend before you buy a full bottle.

  • Just like the full bottle

    A fine-mist atomiser sprays like the original, so it opens, projects and lasts on your skin the way the full bottle does.

10ML decants in glass vials and a travel atomiser

10ML vs a blind buy

What a decant gives you that a bottle bought unsmelled can’t.

Why 10ML?
Blind buy
Authentic original perfume
Yes
Yes
Smell it on your skin before you buy
Yes
No
Try several scents for one bottle’s price
Yes
No
Travel-ready atomiser
Yes
No
No full bottle wasted if it’s not for you
Yes
No

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Chosen for jasmine, musk and bergamot, notes that often share a formula with its neroli, cedar and rose in the perfumes we stock.

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  • By Kilian Black Phantom decant

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Frequently asked questions

What does By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi smell like?

By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi opens with Neroli. The heart brings Bulgarian Rose, Gardenia, Litchi and Tuberose. It dries down to Cedar, Sandalwood and Vanilla.

Is By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi long lasting?

Shoppers on fragrance communities most often rate its longevity as long lasting (40% of votes), and 52% rate it long lasting or eternal. They most often rate its sillage as moderate (41% of votes). How long it lasts on you also depends on your skin and how much you apply.

Is By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi good for summer?

Shoppers on fragrance communities rate it mainly for autumn; summer takes only 5% of season votes.

Is By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi good for winter?

Shoppers on fragrance communities favour other seasons, but winter still takes 30% of season votes.

Is By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi for day or night?

Shoppers on fragrance communities mostly wear it after dark: 90% of time-of-day votes are for evenings and nights out, 10% for daytime or the office.

Can I wear By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi to the office?

Shoppers on fragrance communities rarely pick it for the office: only 2% of time-of-day votes go to the office.

Who makes By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi?

Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi is made by By Kilian. It was launched in 2015.

How many wears is a 10ml decant of By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi?

A 10ml decant of By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi holds about 200 sprays, roughly 67 days of wear at 3 sprays a day. The 3ml decant holds about 60 sprays, around 20 days. The 30ml decant holds about 600 sprays, around 200 days.

Which other By Kilian perfumes can I try?

Besides By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi, 10ML has Angels' Share, Love Don't Be Shy and Black Phantom from By Kilian, each decanted from the original bottle.

Is this By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi decant the original perfume?

Yes. Every By Kilian Voulez-Vous Coucher Avec Moi decant is filled by hand from an original By Kilian bottle, with nothing added or diluted, so it opens, dries down and lasts on your skin the way the bottle does. We sell only authentic originals.

What is a decant?

A small amount of a perfume, taken from its original bottle and put into a travel atomiser. You get the real fragrance in a size that lets you live with it for days before you decide on the full bottle.

How does the money-back guarantee work?

If a scent isn’t right for you, get in touch within 30 days of it arriving and we’ll arrange a refund. Terms apply. See our refund policy.