By Kilian · Eau de Parfum
By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme
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- Travel-ready 3ml, 10ml, 30ml
- Long-lasting scent
Orange blossom and rose carry Love Don't Be Shy Extreme by By Kilian, a sweet, powdery floral launched in 2021. Neroli and bergamot start things off with a crisp citrus sparkle. Orange blossom and Bulgarian rose then take the middle, warm and musky in a white-floral way. The base notes go nearly edible, with marshmallow and vanilla, then musk and a hint of pomegranate, so the finish suggests a warm dessert more than flowers. Women make up most of its wearers, and it fits anyone who likes a cosy, sugary bouquet over a sharp or green one. Cooler months suit it best, autumn and winter, with night the favourite hour, yet it has an office following too. The sillage vote clearly lands on moderate, while the longevity vote leans long lasting. Wear a 3ml decant through a stretch of dark evenings and you will know soon enough whether it deserves more room on your shelf.
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The community verdict
Love Don't Be Shy Extreme blends neroli and orange blossom with marshmallow, vanilla and a rose that becomes clearer as it softens. The largest group find it long-lasting, while most report moderate projection. It fits autumn nights best, though winter evenings work too; its powdery sweetness may not be for everyone.
Summarised with AI from perfume-community reviews
- Heartafter a few minutes
- Bulgarian Rose
- Orange Blossom
- Brand
- By Kilian
- Concentration
- Eau de Parfum
- Scent profile
- For women
- Launched
- Decant sizes
- 3ml, 10ml, 30ml
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By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme, hour by hour
How it opens, settles and lingers on skin.
Marshmallow and rose melting into vanilla as frost settles outside.
Main accordssweet, white floral, citrus, powdery, vanilla
What wearers say
Votes from fragrance communities, most-voted answers first.
Longevity
Most voted: 47%Long lasting
Sillage
Most voted: 51%Moderate
Season
Most voted: 44%Autumn
Time of day
Most voted: 54%Night out
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Longevity, 396 votes
- Very weak2%7 votes
- Weak4%15 votes
- Moderate33%131 votes
- Long lasting (Most voted)47%188 votes
- Eternal14%55 votes
Sillage, 382 votes
- Intimate8%30 votes
- Moderate (Most voted)51%196 votes
- Strong31%118 votes
- Enormous10%38 votes
Season, 396 votes
- Spring13%50 votes
- Summer4%16 votes
- Autumn (Most voted)44%175 votes
- Winter39%155 votes
Time of day, 396 votes
- Daytime13%52 votes
- Office2%9 votes
- Evening30%120 votes
- Night out (Most voted)54%215 votes
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Every perfume we sell is the authentic original, decanted from the perfume house’s own bottle.
- Key notes
- Bergamot
- Neroli
- Bulgarian Rose
- Orange Blossom
- Marshmallow
- Musk
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By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme in plain words
What it smells like, how it wears and who it suits.
What it smells like
Neroli opens it bright and airy, with orange blossom and rose giving the heart a soft floral bloom. A sweet, powdery marshmallow note melts underneath, making a comforting, creamy finish that fades slowly.
How it wears
Wearers find it long-lasting for most, with moderate wear a smaller group. Projection is mostly moderate, and some find it strong.
When to wear it
The perfume community wears it on autumn nights, and winter evenings suit it too. Work is also named, where it keeps a soft, sweet profile.
Who it suits
Suits a woman who likes sweet, powdery florals with a clear rose. The marshmallow sweetness is distinctive, so it fits those who enjoy gourmand softness.
Similar perfumes at 10ML
- Versace Pour Femme Dylan Blush Pink: shares the marshmallow and orange blossom, sweet and floral
- Chloé Le Nectar: shares the neroli and orange blossom, bright and floral
- Giorgio Armani Emporio Armani Because It’s You: shares the neroli and Bulgarian rose, soft and floral
Sizes and price per ml
At 10ML, By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme comes as 3ml for €33.93 (€11.31/ml), 10ml for €102.78 (€10.28/ml) and 30ml for €215.90 (€7.20/ml).
Frequently asked questions
What does By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme smell like?
By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme opens with Bergamot and Neroli. The heart brings Bulgarian Rose and Orange Blossom. It dries down to Marshmallow, Musk, Pomegranate and Vanilla. Shoppers on fragrance communities describe its main accords as sweet, white floral, citrus, powdery and vanilla.
Is By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme long lasting?
Shoppers on fragrance communities most often rate its longevity as long lasting (47% of votes), and 61% rate it long lasting or eternal. They most often rate its sillage as moderate (51% of votes). How long it lasts on you also depends on your skin and how much you apply.
Is By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme good for summer?
Shoppers on fragrance communities rate it mainly for autumn and winter; summer takes only 4% of season votes.
Is By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme good for winter?
Shoppers on fragrance communities rate it well for winter: winter takes 39% of season votes, close behind its most-voted season.
Is By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme for day or night?
Shoppers on fragrance communities mostly wear it after dark: 85% of time-of-day votes are for evenings and nights out, 15% for daytime or the office.
Can I wear By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme to the office?
Shoppers on fragrance communities rarely pick it for the office: only 2% of time-of-day votes go to the office.
Who makes By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme?
Love Don't Be Shy Extreme is made by By Kilian. It was launched in 2021. The concentration is Eau de Parfum.
How many wears is a 10ml decant of By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme?
A 10ml decant of By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme holds about 200 sprays, roughly 67 days of wear. The 3ml decant holds about 60 sprays, around 20 days. The 30ml decant holds about 600 sprays, around 200 days.
Which other By Kilian perfumes can I try?
Besides By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme, 10ML has Angels' Share, Love Don't Be Shy and Black Phantom from By Kilian, each decanted from the original bottle.
Is this By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme decant the original perfume?
Yes. Every By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme decant is filled by hand from an original By Kilian bottle, with nothing added or diluted, so it opens, dries down and lasts on your skin the way the bottle does. We sell only authentic originals.
Is By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme sweet?
Yes, softly. Marshmallow and vanilla bring the sweetness, though neroli and rose add fresh floral lift.
What do people like most about By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme?
People like its lasting power and projection, and that it is not just a sweet perfume. Many enjoy how it softens and gives the rose room to bloom.
Where can I buy By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme as a decant?
At 10ML: By Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme comes as a 3ml, 10ml and 30ml decant, filled by hand from an original bottle. The 10ml decant costs €102.78 (€10.28/ml), and 10ML ships across the EU.
What is a decant?
A small amount of a perfume, taken from its original bottle and put into a travel atomiser. You get the real fragrance in a size that lets you live with it for days before you decide on the full bottle.
How does the money-back guarantee work?
If a scent isn’t right for you, get in touch within 30 days of it arriving and we’ll arrange a refund. Terms apply. See our refund policy.